Have you ever watched the movie "The Proposal" with Sandra Bullock?  We just watched it over the weekend and I am enthrolled with it.  The main character is such a great example of me, as I have been known to be for the majority of my life, including periods of time of my current time.  I'm laughing, truly, because it is hilarious.  You must see it and if you've known me for a long time, I just don't see how you could not agree.  When I watch it and I remember what a hard ass I used to be, well, it makes me thankful that I managed to tune in to my softer side, the side that allows feelings in despite the vulnerability that it causes.